Family Night Recap!

Last night is one of my favorite nights of the month at Family Church-Family Night! I had spent ALL day Friday and ALL day Saturday working some young boys hard in the woods preping for deer season! It has been a crazy last two weeks so I couldn't wait for some good quality time with my girls!

First, we went to Kiroli Park to slide slides, swing, play some girly softball (yes, Gracen has a pink ball and bat that Jennifer Rhea bought her), and some trail walking. I ran into an old friend and even some of our youth playing some football in the middle field at Kiroli Park as well. Next, we headed off to Dillas for some good steak burritos then topped it off with some icecream from the creamery! We had good intentions to go home and watch a movie with Gracen (had to put Addelyn down for the night) but we ended up spending time talking, praying, and worshipping God together as a family. Last, we let Gracen pile up with us in bed (we let her sleep in our room on Family Nights-she has been counting down the days) to read some books then get some shut eye!

Thank you God for allowing us to make memories as a family! Help us Lord in our fight to raise sons and daughters who walk with you!

What I want to pass on to my daughters

I felt compelled by the Holy Spirit to shut my self in my office today after lunch to spend the afternoon with him up until Family Night. I love it when there is a special urging in my heart to be with him because I know there is something(s) he wants to share with me.

It is amazing the things God teaches us through different "life stages." Being a parent now there is so many things God has been teaching me through parenting. I guess so since he is the perfect Father. It seems that I get a little bit clearer picture of the great responsibility that he has given us as parents to raise sons and daughters who will walk with God. My wife and I have but a short time to pour into our children before they "leave our nest." I pray and ask God to reveal to my my daughters strengths and weaknesses so that I may pray more specifically for them. It is awesome to be able to see the fruit of the precious time Jodi spends with my girls. The countless hours of teaching and training them. Then to see them begin to duplicate what they've learned. She has and is doing such a great job as a mom taking care of the family. During some of my time I had with the Lord today I wrote down several things I would like to pass on to my daughters. I will share a few with you:

1) To live a life of dedication and worship to God. I want them to realize that serving God isn't just a "set time" each today. But serving God is a 24/7, all day every day relationship. One that consumes us!

2) To live a life of prayer. It is cute to see Gracen pray for her food, or before bed, or for her baby dolls ,but I pray there comes a day where there is a burning fire in her heart to seek the father through prayer. To learn to go to her knees and fight when the enemy is prowling. To believe and understand the power of prayer.

3) To live by God's word. I pray they have a hunger to feast upon the word of God and hide it in thier hearts. I pray they realize his way is the only way to life. I pray they live by God's principles and standards regardless of the cost.

4) I pray they love family. I pray they will love the family in which they were raised and give their lives to the ones they will become apart of. I pray they will care for thier husbands, children, and homes.

5) I pray they will have a heart to give and to serve. I pray they will give self-lessly and serve others and family as they are serving Christ.

6) I pray they are quick to forgive. We will always be given the opportunity to become offended and unforgiving. Life is to short to live it in unforgiveness and eternity is too long to live with its consequences.

7) Courage. I pray they have the courage to stay the course even when the course goes against the popular tides of the world.I pray they stay true to thier calling that God has on thier lives.

So how will I pass these things on to my girls?

1) I pray God will empower me to live these examples in front of them.

2) I pray for God's wisdom for me to teach them.

Thank you God for giving me the wonderful responsibility to pass the faith on to the next generation.

Back to School Bash with Big Al Recap!

The house was packed last night with 173 crazy students and youth workers celebrating the "Back to School Bash" with Big Al! We cranked up the night with Flo Worster and Jennifer Rhea giving away tons of awesome door prizes! I shared some scriptures from God's word with the students challenging them to rise up and live a passionate life for God! Big Al then came out and ministered to the students the rest of the night. We ended by having all the youth workers come out and pray a blessing over the students for the new school year! A big thanks to Mrs. Elaine Fox for taking some GREAT pics of the night!

"Moving on Up"

We had our annual "Moving on Up" Parent/Student Orientation Saturday evening at 6 PM. This is held every year for families who have kids that are moving up into our Junior High Ministry. They were greeted at the door by our 7th Grade Girls small group. After families signed in and recieved some information they enjoyed a nice catered supper in the Cafe' X. After supper we had all the families come into the E3 Room where they were able to experience a Wednesday Night atmosphere in student ministry. After I introduced our Junior High small group leaders we gave away door prizes, split up in groups, and played an interactive game. Then came business. We discussed with the families the transition and changes Junior High students go through. We talked about the student ministry's place, our mission, and what to expect. I was very pleased with the participation and turnout we had.

This is going to be a great year!

My "Messy List"

For the past few weeks we have been on a series entitled, "One Month to Live". Each week we've had a different speaker give a different message on the subject. Two Sunday's ago Arvil Ogle spoke and challenged us to make a "Messy List" of our lives. This is to help us spend more time examining OUR lives instead of spending so much time trying to CRITIQUE others lives.

"And why worry about a speck in your friend's eye when you have a log in your own? How can you think of saying to your friend, 'Let me help you get rid of that speck in your eye,' when you can't see past the log in your own eye? Hypocrite! First get rid of the log in your own eye; then you will see well enough to deal with the speck in your friend's eye." (Matthew 7:3-5)

If you will read what Jesus said in the above passage he doesn't tell us not to deal with other people's "specks" at all. But what he does say is for us FIRST get the log out of our own eyes so THEN we can see well enough to deal with the speck in our friend's eye.

Occasionally, I will ask Jodi (because she knows me best and I trust her more than any other human being) to honestly evaluate my life and give me two things that she can see are my "weaknesses". Sometimes I come out feeling pretty good about myself. But God is the one who truly knows my heart and sometimes I can know the evil lurking in my own heart.

I made my "Messy List" today and tried to do an honest evaluation of my life. I will share a few with you:

1) I tend to be impatient at times. (Patience is a fruit of the spirit and is a must if I want to move forward towards full devotion. I've heard and experienced the difficulty of praying for "patience" in your life.)

2) I can be irritable at times. (Sure, I can blame it on lack of sleep but the Bible tells us the love "is not irritable."

3) I tend to get in a funk when things happen that are either out of my control totally or I can't seem to get control over something I think I need to be in control of. (I need to remind myself that God is in control! Period.

4) I tend to be a "fixer" and when I can't "fix" something or "fix" somebody or "fix" a situation I can get bent out of shape. (This goes back to that control thing.)

5) I tend to be hardest on those closest to me. (I need to learn to shell out the mercy and grace to others that I so desperately need myself. Please forgive to those people that I have been hard on-I'm sorry).

6) I tend to be hardest on myself. (I've always tended to "beat myself up" when either I mess up or don't do the job I think I should have or could have done. I take a lot off of the enemy's hands when I do this. I need to realize there is no condemnation for those in Christ and that where I fall short God's grace is sufficient!)

Boy, my life sure would be a mess without Christ working in me. Thank you Lord for your mercy and grace.

Family Church Back to School Fall Fashion Show Brunch

School begins this Friday and F.C. celebrated that with a ladies "Back to School Fall Fashion Show Brunch" in the E3 Student Ministry Room. About 110 ladies were apart of the event this past Saturday morning. Mothers, youth, and youth workers modeled off the modest fall apparrel from Kara's Store who sponsored clothing for the show. I am so proud of my wife Jodi for the great job leading this event along with the many other ladies that made it happen! It was a long 4 weeks of hard work and planning. Sarah Niswanger walked with her each step of the way and her father Robert was a huge blessing in his decor skills and planning. A huge thanks to all the models who gave of thier time to be apart. Terry Dick and Tonya Lewis worked so very hard preparing the brunch for that morning. Elaine Fox gave of her time taking pics for the entire event. Phillip Brooks, Alex Potor, and Josh Williams made sure the technical and lighting aspects were covered. Jenny and Olivia Remsberg along with Victoria Worley sang.And last but not least, Dr. Joneal Kirby (A.K.A. Dr. Mom) knocked it out of the park speaking on the subject of mothers "Leaving a Legacy."
You know some people may ask, "Where was the spiritual significance in this?" If Dr. Kirby's message didn't "light your fire" then your wood may be wet? To me, community and building God honoring relationships is never a waste! The girls had a blast!

"So what did you do in all of this Beck?" Well, since I've never been accused of having style I obviously didn't help much with this deal. Nope, I got to babysit my two daughters at home for two whole days! Boy, Am I glad momma is back!

Persistence in Prayer

Living out in the country I have always wanted two white rocking chairs to sit on my front porch. I know this sounds more like the desire of a 60 year old man rather than a 30 year old man but that's just me. I finally went and purchased two nice white rockers that I took home to try and assemble. After several hours of failure, cutting myself a few times, almost cussing once, and not being able to get the holes and arm rests to match up, I broke down and paid the store $10.00 to do it themselves!

How many times have we gone to God in prayer about something, not gotten an imediate answer, thrown in the towel, and just given up? One lesson I learned while in sales was persistence pays off!

One of my favorite presidents is Abraham Lincoln. Take a look of a common list of the failures (along with a few successes) of "Honest Abe."

1831 - Lost his job
1832 - Defeated in run for Illinois State Legislature
1833 - Failed in business
1834 - Elected to Illinois State Legislature (success)
1835 - Sweetheart died
1836 - Had nervous breakdown
1838 - Defeated in run for Illinois House Speaker
1843 - Defeated in run for nomination for U.S. Congress
1846 - Elected to Congress (success)
1848 - Lost re-nomination
1849 - Rejected for land officer position
1854 - Defeated in run for U.S. Senate
1856 - Defeated in run for nomination for Vice President
1858 - Again defeated in run for U.S. Senate
1860 - Elected President (success)

It also has been said that Thomas Edison when trying to invent the light bulb failed over 1,000 before he got it!

What if he would have quit at 999? What if Abraham Lincoln would have given up early on in life?

So many times we are knocking at the door of heaven for a great need in our lives and we give up when the answer is just right around the corner!


Jesus had a few things to say about persistence when it comes to our prayer life.

"Then, teaching them more about prayer, he used this story: "Suppose you went to a friend's house at midnight, wanting to borrow three loaves of bread. You say to him, 'A friend of mine has just arrived for a visit, and I have nothing for him to eat.' And suppose he calls out from his bedroom, 'Don't bother me. The door is locked for the night, and my family and I are all in bed. I can't help you.' But I tell you this-though he won't do it for friendship's sake, if you keep knocking long enough, he will get up and give you whatever you need because of your shameless persistence. "And so I tell you, keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives. Everyone who seeks, finds. And to everyone who knocks, the door will be opened." (Luke 11:5-10)

Or what about the Parable of the Persisten Widow in Luke 18?

"One day Jesus told his disciples a story to show that they should always pray and never give up. "There was a judge in a certain city," he said, "who neither feared God nor cared about people. A widow of that city came to him repeatedly, saying, 'Give me justice in this dispute with my enemy.' The judge ignored her for a while, but finally he said to himself, 'I don't fear God or care about people, but this woman is driving me crazy. I'm going to see that she gets justice, because she is wearing me out with her constant requests!" (Luke 18:1-5)

I don't know what situation you find yourself in today. Maybe you desperately need God to move in your life. Maybe there is a sick family member that needs a miracle! Maybe you have lost your job during this tough economic time. Maybe your son or daughter has strayed from the faith and you are believing God to draw him or her back.

I pray the words of Jesus would encourage you to fight, believe, and never give up while praying!